ULASAN : Tuesday With Morrie Part 2

8^th Tuesday : Talk About Money

• We put value in a wrong things and it leads to disillusioned lives 
• In our country they brainwash people by repeat something over and over like owning things is good. More money is good. More property is good. More commercialism is good. More is good. More is good. The average person is so fogged up by all this, he has no perspective on what’s really important anymore.

9^th Tuesday : Talk About How Love Goes On

• Love is how you stay alive
• Think of my voice and I’ll be there

10^th Tuesday : Talk About Marriage

• "They don’t know what they want in a partner. They don’t know who they are themselves – so how they know who they’re marrying ?"
• Few rules to be true about love and marriage : Respect . Compromise. Talk openly. Common set values in life. Your values must be alike.

11^th Tuesday : Talk About Our Culture

• How we think. What we value. Those you must choose yourself. You cant let anyone or any society determine those for you.
• If you don’t like the culture, change it !

12^th Tuesday : Talk About Forgiveness

• " I mourn my dwindling time , but I cherish the chance it gives me to make things right."
• Forgive yourself and forgive others

13^th Tuesday : Talk About The Perfect Day

• Death ends a  life, not a relationship
• As long as we love each other and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without ever really going away. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on – in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here.

14^th Tuesday : we say goodbye.

Okey ini laa yang dapat aku kongsikan pasal buku yang sangat touching ni. Ada banyak benda yang dalam islam dah ajar tapi kita fail nak buat macam redha,  Ikhlas, Ihsan. Kalau kita dapat capai semua tu..understanding tu… Sure kita akan letak dunia ni cuma di tangan,bukan di hati. Masalah kita ialah bila kita letak dunia di hati  sebab tu kita tak boleh nak redha dan make peace dengan life kita.

Few things yang aku rasa menarik ialah bagaimana dia mengkritik cara fikir dan gaya hidup generasi baru  yang commitment phobic..kejar money..sampai kita tak tahu erti hidup. Aku setuju yang generasi kita commitmen phobic..kita takut nak membesar sebab kita takut nak pegang tanggungjawab…kita nak terus jadik ignorant macam zaman kita belajar..zaman kita tak perlu fikir tanggungjawab..

Maybe kita tak perasaan…komitmen phobic ni boleh gak berlaku sebab kita nak hidup seronok…life student seronok..tak yah fikir orang sume kan? Life yang sangat keduniaan…but for how long kita nak mindset rileks dan terus rileks…kita grown up..we cant freeze the time…kalau kita jumpa erti hidup..kita takkan regret dan takut nak hadap masa mendatang kan?

Juga tertarik dan agree tentang budaya..Budaya ialah kebiasaan. Tak semua kebiasaan tu betul . Sebab tu dia kata change it. Kita boleh pilih kebiasaan yang baik…untuk kita orang islam dah ada guideline…kalau kita betul-betul ikut..kita tak perlu nak larut dalam kebiasaan masyarakat yang kalau kita lihat semakin sekular dan kapitalis

P/S : Feels sorry for Mitch n Morrie yang tak jumpa cahaya. Kita yang lahir-lahir da hidup dalam “cahaya”  kenapa taknak hidup damai-damai ?

P/S : Aminah,pandai kan berfikir dan bercakap? So, walk the talk okey?